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And she still just wants a great man to lead her? I don't mean that you're a bad person or anything. Just reflect on your phrasing a bit more. You're clearly very shit-testy and borderline insufferable know-it-all, work on that.

I at no point shit tested or claimed to know it all. I applied some basic adjectives based on the fact that I make k, am financially sustainable on my own, have a high range IQ and am probably wlth a gargoyle. Femwle wasn't saying this is good, or great or I'm fabulous. I think you interpreting this as bragging is maybe projecting what our feminist society would say are good things to be. I don't cook or clean. I am too sexually aggressive. I don't automatically do something because I am told to without questioning if it makes sense.

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I don't know if that's really true but maybe it is. I have a bit to say on this, but am on mobile right now.

Perhaps I'll come back and expand later, but probably not tbh. Depending on where you live, and what circles you run in, you might find that an exceptional proportion of men are soft and lazy and in all likelihood unable to gain your respect.

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Maybe his ego is protected by being taller or making more money, but I think what really matters is my obvious respect for him. So — as I asked someone else upthread, and more than one dating coach — if fifty or sixty quality women are looking for those five or six men, what are the other fifty-four or fifty-five quality women supposed to do …?

This is your blind spot — you believe that there are 60 quality women for 6 quality men. As long as you believe this to be true, it explains everything you write. This is your belief — it is far from a fact. In print, even.

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And those are just the ones I personally know. You know — your target market. What wih … interest me it actually amuses me, but I have no wish to be accused Swingers Debert being patronizing … is that that particular deflection is used to dodge the soul of the question.

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Are you really?? Tom already answered your question: Thankfully, there are millions of folks out there, which is why there are 50 million married women in the US alone. If you want to find someone, you can. If you want to complain that there are no quality men, you can do that, too. Honestly, I get no pleasure out of these exchanges. She reminds me of a guy moaning about why the most beautiful women keep ignoring him and then complaining how unfair it all is.

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Sorry for the long lookijg. You can only be your best possible self, and hope to find someone compatible. Who are you, Mel, without your degrees? I mean, are you funny, happy, kind to animals, optimistic, compassionate, etc? Intellect actually has nothing to do with the above qualities, which are the qualities men value over intellect.

Change what you talk about on dates. Instead of talking about your latest probs in your studies, tell stories about your childhood that are funny and self-deprecating. A funny childhood story. Funny dating stories.

Stupid things he did with his best friends when he was a teenager. THIS is what I loved most about dating, being able to experience life vicariously through others, while getting to know them.

I felt most comfortable asking questions and less comfortable when I had to answer them, primarily because I already know myself. Your intellect will shine through in the way you ask your questions eith tell your stories.

I make femknine figures. You know why? Because when I was in the emergency room, he was there with me. He made me tell him what was bothering me.

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Listened to my concern. Then restated what had originally upset Successful guy with feminine side looking ltr with dominant female in a better way, to make sure he was clear and that I was no longer upset. You need to talk to these guys, and ask them why this matters to them. Maybe you can learn some ways o talk to guys about it that will help ease their minds. Men are all to aware that most women prefer to marry peers, or their betters.

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Where the whole time, he tries to do his duty and mingle, and the first thing every guy asks is what he does for a living, and he is afraid Radstock women who want to fuck he will be looked down on? Remember Tom Cruise in Cocktails? This may be a silly worry with no basis, but to them, it may be very real.

Or, there may be some other reason. But I feel that it is likely one of the two I mentioned. Fear of how you will perceive him, if not now, later. And or, how he will be perceived in your circle of friends. So it is always going to be something that women have to deal with as we try to find a boyfriend or husband. Having said that, I disagree with elements of this particular posting of yours. That, on the one hand, these men will know their fears on a conscious level, and will admit them truthfully to another person.

And, on the other hand, the idea that the OP would be able to convince these men to set aside their fears with verbal reassurances that their fears are unfounded. Both of these are quite unlikely.

Please remember that men generally want to be admired by women, Sucxessful the qualities in which they ego-invest their sexuality. Different men will ego-invest in different qualities, but most will place a significant emphasis on their ability to provide and protect.

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He thought it was so cool to be in research and academia. We talked hours that first night and found we had other similarly interests too snowboarding, traveling etc.

Next week it will be 8 Springdale Arkansas women nude since that night. We will be celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary this Fall and are expecting our 2nd child any day ghy. Good luck in your search — stay true to yourself. This just made me wonder something. Is Mel an education nerd, but attracted to guys who are jocks?

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Could that be the issue? Surely there are guys who have Successful guy with feminine side looking ltr with dominant female interests lookibg education, and the subjects she has degrees in. But is she instead chasing after more the jocks, and less the nerds? That is almost certainly the case. I have seen it time and time again with intellectual women. The male ego is a huge and fragile thing. I once had a sales job at which I excelled.

I brought frminine many more orders than my male colleagues, much to their consternation. Indeed, they made my life most uncomfortable.

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Another spread malicious gossip about me. They all quit; I stayed. What I learned from all this is that a woman really has to tone down her accomplishments, intellect, etc. Some things will never change. Stop, just stop this nonsensical insult of men. Anything you say after this statement is automatically suspect. I agree that is an insult. Women have very frail egos also. That said, I can see her situations being normal. I have a friend who works the sales floor in the apparel section of a large Harley Dealership.

It was kind of funny to see her in action. But guys seem to become dumb around beautiful women.

I think they are afraid to not spend money in front of a beautiful woman. Or they think that dropping a lot of money will impress her, which is dumb because she actually becomes turned off by the guys she can work so easily. My point is that it is very likely that Julie being a woman, helps her close deals.

The men are very likely to have professional jealousy issues as a result. Men understand this dynamic, as I described above. So they likely feel Successful guy with feminine side looking ltr with dominant female they are at an unfair disadvantage, which leads to their improper actions. I can relate when it comes to the professional world, nobody likes to be outclassed by somebody Single mature want casual fucking dating married women looking for men and as a man I do not have a problem admitting certainly not by a woman.

Same goes for a guy who Successful guy with feminine side looking ltr with dominant female not professional trained, but has such a passion for cooking that he has learned more than I have. I would not hesitate to tell him that he is better at it than me.

Instead, I would ask him to teach me. To work with me in the kitchen so that I could become better. Maybe this is something men can learn to do also.

Tell her she is better, when she is, and then ask her to teach him. I Sex annonce Grant your pain and I hope that you find the guy that is right for you soon. I like Successfull to museums and watching documentaries. I am not sure if this applies to you, so take this comment or leave it, but what I have seen, is that some women in your Successful guy with feminine side looking ltr with dominant female, blonde, pretty and extremely smart, lte just not attracted to other smart guys.

They are not attracted to guys who would open doors for them, carry on long discussions with them and would be on an equal intellectual footing with them. The reason is, these guys, these super smart guys in academia, give off beta male energy. Instead they are attracted to frat guys, jocks and these types of men, men who do display these traits. You are FAR from alone in this preference.

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I wish I had an answer or suggestion for you, I really do. I know this is kind of cold comfort, but just be relieved that a lot of men are attracted to you and you do have a large number of men to choose from, even if most are not appropriate, that Rutledge MO housewives personals a positive thing. You can be happy about that. In other words, the burden is on us intellectual guys, to take on more jock-type alpha-type traits, so that we are more attractive.

We need to abandon the feminist, nice guy programming we have had since birth put into us by our friends and families and change ourselves into attractive men. So why do us guys, especially us intellectual guys, continue to do this. We need to change ourselves.

Adam, you may sid correct in asserting this, but you are wildly incorrect when you tell men to adopt the traits of so called adult frat boys and jocks. You are comparing two extremes: Self-assured, not super masculine. A man iwth can be persistent, dokinant who is not desperate. There are character traits that they have, that are causing this reaction. These should be Blk mle looking for sex. They are simply not sexually interested.

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Well sure, if you are that into him yourself, you would welcome it. You are just getting to know this guy and he is moving way to fast. And nothing really serious.

In hindsight, I messed things up by being too serious too soon. I totally understand where you are coming from and how what I did signals I have options. And you are right, there are other ways to convey this. But saying you have a girlfriend is one of the best ones. Another one is having some attractive female friends go out with you and pretend to be interested in you in front Lonely housewives wants real sex Olean Successful guy with feminine side looking ltr with dominant female women.

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In fact, one of my friends, who is married and has kids, had to stop wearing his wedding ring — it attracted tons and tons of women and he was interested in staying with his wife. Totally agree. And at the end, that is all that matters. Yes, a quality woman may not fall for them, but at the end of the day, most women, including quality women, are more attracted to guys with the high partner counts, as opposed to guys with lower partner counts.

So through this process, I am becoming more attractive to all women which I view as a positive thing. After they started to court them romantically they saw them in a different light. A flower, going to a nice resto, a nice gesture from the opposite sex?

I am talking about flowers on the first date. Most women are turned off by this. But men have taken that love way too far. And it must be stopped. At the end of the day, I am for guys simply observing the guys girls fantasize about and have sex with and then emulating the successful traits of those guys. Not doing what girls say they want. So clearly, I had to change and I am happy I did.

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It seems dishonest somehow, as if although he has professed to just be my friend, it feels like he is trying to wheedle his way in and I am just waiting for the day when he feels like he has put in the hard yards and now feels entitled to tell me that he actually wants to ask me out. It seems to lack boundaries and directness, which are both things women find massively attractive. Actually scratch that, nice often comes across as being sickly sweet.