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Last year, a magazine survey found that nearly two-thirds of women "wouldn't date a man who has had sex with another man. Despite this lingering stigma, the experiences of heterosexual women in committed relationships with bisexual men have never really been examined.

Ladh the new book Women in Relationships with Bisexual Men does exactly that. Co-authored by Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli, a lecturer in Social Diversity at Deakin University, and her co-researcher Sara Lubowitz, the work is based on the insights of 79 Australian women involved with bisexual men.

We spoke to Pallota-Chiarolli about her findings. Hi Maria. Why did you decide to study the "straight women with bi men" dynamic?

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I've been working in the area of sexual diversity, gender, and cultural diversity for a very long time as a researcher and writer. For the last eight years, I've been looking at issues around relationship diversity, x I found that women really wanted to talk about this, because it hadn't been addressed.

What were some of your most surprising findings?

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They were much more likely, then, to challenge those dominant and horrible misogynistic ideas of being a man. And how did their sexuality translate into being perceived by their female partners as better fathers?

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Some women said things like, "After being with a bisexual man, I would never go back to being with a heterosexual man in a relationship," because they found these men far more interesting and open to exploring. Read More: What are some of the challenges facing these couples? These women faced the perceived stigma that bisexual men were deceitful; that you can't trust them. Lesbians gril Slovenia then a lot of women said, "Look, it's not like that at all.

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When you're with a straight man, he could be seeing another woman. We actually found women talking about something called "gendered monogamy"—often women were much happier being with a bisexual man, and one of the rules that they had established in their relationship was: How did the Bi lady looking for a bi guy cope with cor stigma?

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The reaction was, "Oh, you've taken one of our gay men," or they'd say things like, "Oh, Women looking real sex Shubuta, here she comes, she's gonna steal our boyfriends. Women felt this was very misogynistic.

What were some factors that huy the success of these relationships? Woman's happiness in the relationship often had to do with whether the woman knew her partner was bisexual before they became involved, and if the partner was already out.

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Women who knew about their partner's bisexuality at the beginning at the relationship were in a much better position. Men Bi lady looking for a bi guy were not out to their partners at the beginning, on the other hand, were more likely to, unfortunately, be violent—emotionally and physically—with Just sex delaware fuck female partners. Do these men struggle more with coming out than gay men and if so, why? The number of gay men who marry and then come out later has dropped significantly because society has become much more accepting of gay men.

But the same thing needs to happen for bisexual men. Society often portrays male bisexuals as devious, evil, or untrustworthy. Most films that have bisexual men in llady have them as either murderers or they have to die—by committing suicide or being killed. Whereas bisexual women are the "hot sexy predators.

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Those women and men who came from strict religious backgrounds They had not been allowed to be to be out, so all those frustration, anger and shame was being [projected] onto the women. How did the women handle their partners coming out after they had begun the relationship? Like anyone who comes out, it's not just you who comes out.

Your family has to then come out, and your friends have to know about you, and so do your kids. For a lot of straight women, it was a question of: Will they ask 'Is Dad bi?

Did the women offer any advice for other straight women? Don't assume a potential male partner is heterosexual just because he's flirting or hooking up with you. Assume nothing, and ask about their sexuality point blank—the women from the study who had the most problems in their relationships with bisexual loking had initially assumed they were entering a relationship with a straight man, only to find out the truth later. Nearly everyone in the study called for greater openness in society about sexual diversity, not just sexual binary—gay or straight—but more acceptance in society that people are all over the spectrum, and that's Bi lady looking for a bi guy.

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